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1. Get baptized by the craziest guy in town.
2. Say and do things that are guaranteed to make religious people want to kill you. Repeat again, and again, and again, and again, and again - don't stop unless forced.
3. Do amazing things for people and ask them to not tell anyone.
4. Hang out with the most despised, marginalized, looked down upon, and shunned people you can find.
5. When possible, forgive and restore people, even if they betrayed you.
6. Live in a way that provokes gossip.
7. Win the most grace competition.
8. Keep the party going.
9. Serve people (note: nose plugs may be required).
10. If you're sad cry.
11. Empower people to do the extraordinary.
12. Act like a rock star in a hotel temple.
13. Radically simplify theology.
14. Break human-made religious laws. Repeat consistently.
15. Prioritize the most important over the important.
16. Let women with "questionable" backgrounds pay your bills.

One of the leadership traits that is all to often overlooked is customer service. I think it is a personal value as well, not limited just to leadership. Everyone respects and wants customer service when they are the customer. They will even complain if they service is not up to their standards, in fact you could be terminated or not retained in a job position for not having good customer service skills.

"Increase your sensitivity to issues of pride. Start to be aware of the things you do as a leader in your business or in your home anytime you are more concerned about promoting yourself than others." - The Servant Leader by Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges

"Omnia relinquit servare rempublicam" (He relinquished everything to serve the Republic.)

I have been asked on more than one occasion what I considered the best time I had while in the Marine Corps Reserves. I always tell them Toys for Tots. For whatever reason I have a heart for kids. I think the kids shouldn't have to worry about grown up problems like the mortgage payment or where they will get the money for groceries. They should be able to have fun and play without worries. Toys for Tots, in a small way, helps during the holiday season. 

I was fortunate this year to have met the co-founder of Toys for Tots John Hampton at his 100th birthday party. The moment reminded me of the long tradition of service Marines have. As Marines, we served in every clime and place. We have served in time of peace and time of war. From the sands of Iwo Jima to the shores of Pelilu, to the jungles of Vietnam, to the cold of Korea, to the hot deserts of Afghanistan and Iraq, from the Horn of Africa to here in the United States. As Veterans, we continue this rich tradition of service. Among other deeds, we serve our community and deserving children with the Toys for Tots program. I am honored to serve with such an exceptional group of men and women.

Now as a veteran, I continue in the legacy of John Hampton and others. I collect toys for children in need. Working long hours before and after work. Running from place to place collecting up toys. I never see the smile these toys bring to a child's face or the warmth in a parents heart to see their child happy in the midst of a sad situation. Although I do not see the smile, I continue on knowing the smile is there.

In the Marine Corps, we never had an army of one. It was always a team effort. I know my fellow Marine Veterans are at my side and helping to pull the load, and I am never alone. I cannot forget the generous donations of toys left by caring hearts in a simple run down barrels. Together all of us are able to make a difference in the lives of millions of children each year.

Thank you for your generosity.

(Picture is form one of our 2008 toy drive events, the SBF stunt Bike Show and Toy Drive at Freedom High School, Oakley, CA)