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John Smulo

Be Like Jesus

by John Smulo
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on Tuesday, 17 April 2012
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  1. Get baptized by the craziest guy in town.
  2. Say and do things that are guaranteed to make religious people want to kill you. Repeat again, and again, and again, and again, and again - don't stop unless forced.
  3. Do amazing things for people and ask them to not tell anyone.
  4. Hang out with the most despised, marginalized, looked down upon, and shunned people you can find.
  5. When possible, forgive and restore people, even if they betrayed you.
  6. Live in a way that provokes gossip.
  7. Win the most grace competition.
  8. Keep the party going.
  9. Serve people (note: nose plugs may be required).
  10. If you're sad cry.
  11. Empower people to do the extraordinary.
  12. Act like a rock star in a hotel temple.
  13. Radically simplify theology.
  14. Break human-made religious laws. Repeat consistently.
  15. Prioritize the most important over the important.
  16. Let women with "questionable" backgrounds pay your bills.
Tags: Jesus Christ, Christian Living, Love, Charity, Forgiveness, Service, Leadership, Theology, Emotions
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Donald E. Hester

Peripheral or Permeate

by Donald E. Hester
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Potomac River

Is Jesus peripheral to your life or does He permeate your life? I am using these words advisedly, because I want to be precise in what I think is an important truth.

What is your goal in life? Think about it for a bit. Is your goal to get a good job, finish school, or simply have fun? Or do you seek to do God’s will in every aspect of your life? Do you only go to Church once or twice a year? What about your prayer life? Do you pray for others or yourself? Is Christ relevant in your life? In other words, does the fact that you have a relationship with Christ affect your life in any way? Think about what you spend your time on each day. How much time do you spend on a hobby, on sports, on TV, on video games, or on Facebook? Now compare that with the amount of time that you spend with God. Does it turn out that the amount of time you spend with God is relatively minor compared to other things in your life?

Dictonary.com defines peripheral as “concerned with relatively minor, irrelevant, or superficial aspects of the subject in question.”

If someone was to look at your life, would they say that Jesus is a relatively minor aspect of your life? Would they say that Jesus is irrelevant to your conduct and decisions?

Have you ever seen a diehard NASCAR fan? They will have stickers all over their cars like a NASCAR; they will watch all the races; they will have a Dale Earhart flag on their house, and they wear a Jeff Gordon jacket. What about a Raiders fan? They will paint their face, go to all the home games, and watch all the away games. They will buy silver and black cars and plaster a Raiders logo on the back windshield. How about a true Star Wars or Star Trek fan? They will dress up as that character, wait all night in line to see the next movie, buy all the collectable toys and trinkets, and maybe even speak Klingon.

You know the people I am talking about. Their fandom pervades and saturates every aspect of their lives. If there was a toilet seat cover with their favorite thing on it, they would buy it.

Dictonary.com defines permeate as “through every part of… to penetrate through… pervade; saturate.”

Is Jesus in every part of your life, or is Jesus more of just a Sunday thing?

Sidebar
One objection to my post might be that you do volunteer time or give money here or there. Those are for sure good things to do. However, ask yourself this, “Do I do these things for myself or to earn salvation or to get a pat on the back?” Or do you do them to bring glory to God?

I will admit that I don’t always volunteer to bring glory to God; often I want credit or praise for my deeds. I realize that I do that from time to time, and I also realize that I am wrong when I seek my own praise.

Tags: Fan, Life, Goal, Sold Out, Christian Living
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Book Review: The Cross is Not Enough, Living as Witnesses to the Resurrection

by Donald E. Hester
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on Tuesday, 07 February 2012
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John Smulo, a friend of mine, gave me a copy of a recently released book titled, “The Cross Is Not Enough: Living as Witnesses to the Resurrection” written by his friends Ross Clifford and Philip Johnson. I have to admit that the title caught my attention, and I started reading it that day. I am not finished with the book yet, but it is so jam-packed with information that I had to write down some of my thoughts before I forgot them.

Premise of the book

The book starts with the following quote:

“If the Church had contemplated the Empty Tomb as much as the Cross of its Lord, its life would have been more exhilarating and its contribution to the world more positive than has been the case.” – George Beasley-Murray

My critical-thinking mind quickly asked the question “Is this true and if so, what are the implications?”

Here are a few quick quotes to sum up their thesis:

“This book will argue, however, that the church needs to step away from the smaller pieces of the puzzle and take time to recognize and focus upon Christianity’s lynchpin.”[20]

“We intend to demonstrate in this book how the micro-pictures – morality, repentance, discipleship, apologetics, mission – although valid, only have full meaning when they have the resurrection as their fountainhead.”[21]

“We are not calling just for a refocus on the resurrection; we are calling for an understanding of the resurrection as the lynchpin of Christianity.”[35]

After reading the first chapter, I quickly realized my bias toward their view. My walk with God took a dramatic change in 1992 when I, too, realized that Christianity is more than the forgiveness of the Cross. I realized that He came to give us a new life; just as He was raised, we too shall be raised. However, it is more than a future hope. He also comes to fill our lives now. Some call this the neglected half of the Gospel. I think this book would pair nicely with books by Ian Thomas, Bob George and Steve McVey.

Symbols and focus

One of the interesting points they bring up is how to tell if people focus more on the cross or the resurrection by the symbols used in church, music and other things. I then wondered, if the resurrection was central to my faith, wouldn’t I lean more toward music and symbols that reflect the resurrection? A quick impromptu experiment might shed some light on this. If the resurrection was central to my belief, the songs I listen to should focus more on the resurrection.

I listen to my music on my iPod, I rate my favorite music, and iTunes counts the number of times I listen to a song. So, I opened up iTunes to see what my most-listened-to favorite songs were. Based on the authors’ premise, I found some interesting and predictable results. According to my non-scientific, impromptu experiment, my music listening habits are in line with a resurrection central mindset.

My number-one-listened-to song was Blessed Redeemer by Casting Crowns. With lyrics like “Seems now I see Him on Calvary's tree” it definitely seems like the focus is on the cross. However, looking at my other top listened-to songs with lyrics like:

“Jesus has overcome and the grave is overwhelmed, the victory is won He is risen from the dead, and I will rise when, He calls my name, no more sorrow, no more pain, I will rise on eagles' wings, before my God fall on my knees, and rise I will rise.” - I Will Rise by Chris Tomlin

“You called and you shouted, broke through my deafness, now I’m breathing in, and breathing out, I’m alive again!” - Alive Again by Matt Meher

“He rose & conquered the grave, Jesus conquered the grave” “We're singing for the glory of the risen King” - Mighty to Save

And the most obvious song:

“Christ is risen from the dead, trampling over death by death, come awake come awake, come and rise up from the grave, Christ is risen from the dead, we are one with Him again, come awake come awake, come and rise up from the grave” - Christ Is Risen by Matt Maher

Apologetics

The book does cover the resurrection from an apologetic approach as well. Given their premise, it is obvious that their apologetic approach is to focus on the resurrection. They do have some innovative ways of engaging with culture and non-believers and this flows into their apologetic approach.

As for a defense of the resurrection, they summarize Gary Habermas’ ‘’commonly agreed facts” approach and N. T. Wright’s “six essential detail” approach. In addition, they address four of the top questions raised about the resurrection.

Also, their contextualizing approach to apologetics is also covered but not to a great degree.

Recommendation

I highly recommend this book for its fresh view on the resurrection. I think for many people it will be a fresh approach with deep insights.

Tags: Worship, Pragmatics, Semiology, Music, Apologetics, Christian Living, Resurrection, Review, Book
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Reflections on my Redeemer

by Donald E. Hester
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Mt. Hermon Retreat

When we think about our Redeemer do we see Him as our Savior who gets us into heaven or do we see Him as the one who takes what is broken and uses it for ultimate good? Intellectually I have always agreed that it is more than a ticket to heaven but practically I did not know how that worked out in my own life. Recently at a men's retreat I get a fresh and vivid look out how Jesus does more than redeem me, He redeems my past. When Paul's tells us the God causes all things to work out for good for us (Rom 8:28) does he really mean it? I have things in my past, skeletons in the closet, which I thought were better of left buried in the past and forgotten. However, our Savoir wants to redeem those past events, mistakes, pains and our current troubles. He wants to turn them into good. God can use those incidents for good, redeeming the broken and using it for a good purpose that ultimately shows His glory.

We are not the only people on the planet who have had to deal with those same issues. People struggle with them all the time. The question is will we allow God to use our struggles to help others? If we allow Him to use our past failings to draw people to Him, He takes a bad situation and redeems it for good. If we sit back ignore or pretend everything is ok He can't redeem those situations.

Kenny Luck, the guest speaker at the men's retreat said, "no risk without loss, no loss without pain and no pain without purpose." It is the hard and narrow road. People may wonder why I would want to drudge up past. Especially mistakes or painful memories that most people think are better left deep and forgotten. This is a valid question. With mistakes and memories come the emotions that are tide to them. Avoid the pain, right? Our Redeemer will redeem those situations. Our Redeemer will see us through the loss and the pain and will ultimately show us the purpose. I would like to think my mistakes have a purpose other than my failure.

Opening ourselves up like this is a big risk. Are we willing to take the risk? Do we trust our Redeemer? Yes it is a leap of faith. I am ready to jump, hesitant but ready.

Tags: Sanctification, Soteriology, Ethics, Character, Behavior, Christian Living
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Transformers Revenge of The Fallen

by Donald E. Hester
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I don't get the critics. They don't like any of the good movies. But I digress; let me tell you why I like this movie, even better then the first live action movie. 
 
The movie is an action movie and it is a sci-fi movie. So you have to suspend disbelief on things like an ancient robot alien device in the great pyramid. The same way you have to suspend disbelief with Benjamin Button.
 
Moral of the story
"Fate rarely calls upon us at a moment of our choosing." When fate calls we need to rise to the occasion. That is what Sam does. Reinforced with his near death experience where he is told he has what it takes to be a leader. All good stories need to have a moral or some great truth we can relate to. This movie has it even if the critics could not see it between all the explosions.
 
Character development
Most people will miss the references and parallels to previous Transformers stories. If you take the information or themes of the characters from those earlier sources you will get a deeper appreciation for the characters.
 
For example Jetfire (Skyfire) in the original series was a transformer who was found on earth and was stuck on Earth long ago much like Megatron was from the first Transformers movie. He was fist a Decepticon and then changed sides to the Autobots. He risks his life to save the Autobots. The parallels with this movie are easy to see and bring added depth to Jetfire’s character.
 
Another example is The Fallen. The evil overlord to Megatron and the one who wants to suck the energy from the sun leaving Earth in the dark in this movie. In the Comic book series Transformers the War Within, The Fallen is one of the original 13 transformers. Long ago he forgot his name but was overseer of the universal clock. He then fell under Unicron'c control and tried to bring Unicron to consume all the Universe and waits to see the last star wink out. Lots of depth to The Fallen that is lost on most movie goers, especially pretentious critics.
 
Storyline
The story line is a classic good triumphing over evil. Of course there is no suspense if at first evil does not triumph over good and good has to return to win the final battle. This is a classic story line. 
 
Now look at the story as an archetype. You can see Optimus Prime as an archetype for Jesus and The Fallen as an archetype for Satan. I mean Optimus Prime even dies is and resurrected. Optimus Prime gives his life to save others just like Jesus. In the end, Optimus vanquishes the evil Fallen, just like the final fate of Satan. “One shall stand and one shall fall.” Sam even believed there was a reason for what happened and believed Prime would come back and save the day. The movie is a spiritual journey wrapped in an action packed sci-fi story.
 
This movie is deep. Far deeper than those shallow critics give it credit for. 
 
Rant
 
 
(If you haven't guessed I disagree with most of the critics of this film. Actually, I disagree with them often; elitist critics who continuously bash top grossing movies? There must be a disconnect! I mean, pretentious critics continuously miss the mark. What they call good barely makes any money and the movies they hate, like Star Wars, blows the top off the box office. One would think that if no one would pay to see the Mona Lisa then it would not be fine art. People pay to see the Mona Lisa because it is fine art. Don't tell the critics, they have a feeling of superiority and if we burst it, they may have no meaning left to their menial lives. You know what grinds my gears, movie critics.)
 
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1055369/
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Review: We the Church

by Donald E. Hester
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Church 

We the Church is a study by Bob George on what the Church is and is not. In this study he made a great point about some people who attend church on Sunday. He likened it to visiting your grandmother. People think they are going to God's house to visit with God and once they leave the building it is like they are not with God any more. As if they do not understand God does not live in a house and that He is with them wherever they go.
 
What is Church?
Do you every feel like you go to 'visit' God? The Church is not a building, it is not a denomination and it is not an organization. The Church is all true believers in Christ, those that have been born again.
 
Bob shows how people are born into 3 different groups. The groups are Jew, Gentile and the Church. (By Church we mean the Greek term Ecclesia, or the Body of Believers). You are born either a Jew or a Gentile. In order to be in the Ecclesia (Church) you must be born again and become a Child of God.
 
In reply Jesus declared, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again." "How can a man be born when he is old?" Nicodemus asked. "Surely he cannot enter a second time into his mother's womb to be born!" Jesus answered, "I tell you the truth, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. You should not be surprised at my saying, 'You must be born again.' The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit." - John 3:3-8 (NIV)
 
Church with a capital 'C' is all believers (sometimes call the Body of Christ) while church with a small 'c' is the building, denomination or organization. Notice that the Church is built by God while the various churches are made by man. Are you a part of the Church or part of the church? Do you place your hope in men or God?
 
Bob made a comment in the study about placing our trust in God and not the government or Wall Street. It is funny to hear as Wall Street and the government has let us down and if we have our trust in men we have nothing.
 
A Body
Bob also covers how the believers are all unique. Using the analogy that the Believers are the Body of Christ he points out we are not all called to be ears or toes. We as a part of the Church all have different tasks to perform. We should recognize and see the unity in the diversity of the Church. As men we tend to separate ourselves into different denominations and churches. Image if all your toes decided to go one way and your ears to go another and your fingers in yet a different direction. Nothing would get done. We need our bodies to work in harmony, all parts doing different tasks for one common goal. We cannot be all ears and see and we can't be all eyes and walk. We need all parts working together.
 
This is one of the reasons why on my FaceBook account under religion I put 'Child of God' and not Baptist or some other man made group. Seems to be silly to go around and tell people I am a toe and I hang out only with toes. I know it is a total cliché to say 'Can't we all just get along?', but seriously, we need to.
 
Clergy
Bob made a few comments about clergy. He said that it might be better to be a pastor who has not gone to seminary. (Glad God stopped me from going) He even quoted Chuck Swindol who said, "It took me four years to finish seminary and thirty years to get over it'. This sentiment is echoed by Brian Hogan in his book ‘There's a Sheep in my Bathtub’ and by Frank Viola in his series of books. This is something that is not a new idea. Going back to the 1100's Peter Waldo was put to death as a heretic for such belief.
 
The clergy was invented because we don't trust God to take care of it. We want to put our trust in mans institutions and not the Holy Spirit.
 
Summary
You don't go to church you are the Church.
 
 
You can by the 3 CD study at:
http://store.silaspartners.com/merchant.mv?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=PtP&Product_Code=CDWTC
 
Tie In With Other Posts
 
Book Review: There's a Sheep in my Bathtub
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/reviews/24-book-reviews/135-book-theres-a-sheep-in-my-bathtub
 
Why are people avoiding church?
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/128-why-do-people-avoid-church
 
What is Core Christianity?
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/89-to-the-core
 
Free from Religion
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/85-free-from-religion
 
Does the size of the church matter?
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/63-does-size-matter
 
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Book: There's a Sheep in My Bathtub

by Donald E. Hester
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Tree on a Hill 

The book ‘There's a Sheep in my Bathtub’, by Brian Hogan, that chronicles his and his family’s adventure in Mongolia. It is a story of struggle and hope, of loss and gain a story that will make you laugh and cry.
 
Simple Christianity
I also attended a Perspectives class that Brian Hogan was the guest speaker. He brought up his ideas on Church planting which may seem unconventional to many Christians. I really liked Brian's 7 rules for Christians. With these simple rules you can see that it strips out 2000 years of barnacles that are customs, traditions and rules made by men. If you will permit me, I call the barnacles religion.
 
Brian's 7 Rules for Christians that fall under love God and love others.
 
Love God
Repent, believe and receive the Holy Spirit
Baptize (The command was to go and baptize not be baptized) (reserved for clergy, why?)
Daily Prayer
 
Love Others
Celebrate the Lord's Supper (a gathering, Greek word, 2 or more gather)
Give generously (Not tithing)
Make disciples
 
Growth
Brian points out that the Church is not growing because it is too complicated and we don't trust the Holy Spirit.
 
The current Western church is built on the Roman Government model, and is in decline now. It is not growing. He believes we need to simplify it. We require people to attend seminary in order to minister to people, even for Baptism, which Brian points out is a command for all Christians, not just clergy. I agree with Brian, even businesses know that they must be flexible in order to move with the tides and grow. If it is too ridged it will break.
 
He also brought up another reason the Church does not grow is because many well intentioned Christians or churches won't allow the Holy Spirit to do His work. They hold on and try to control the development of new congregations and don't trust the Holy Spirit to lead them to truth and keep them on track. The Church is not multiplying because we do not trust the Holy Spirit in the life of the believer. Brian asks us to let lose the apostolic types to start new and different churches. He asks us to allow the Holy Spirit to do his job to direct the Church. Would we rather trust men with the Church?
 
With the Holy Spirit guiding Brian Hogan, family and fellow Christians developed a Mongolian lead, self replicating church in 3 years. This group of believers is uniquely Mongolian and yet Christian. It is free from the barnacles of Western Christianity and is focused on Christ not tradition. How great is our God!
 
This new group of believers has already split off and divided to create grand-daughter churches. They have even sent missionaries out to different people groups.
 
The model of meetings used is home based churches, with large celebrations as needed or for holidays. They found in Mongolia that when they started having large weekly meetings the Church stopped growing. In a surprise move Brian and leaders wrestled with and finally ended the large weekly meetings. Once the weekly meetings ended the home gatherings started to grow again.
 
Hope for the Hopeless
In his book Brian shares a family tragedy that happened while in Mongolia. After having been in Ulannbaater, the capitol of Mongolia, for some time, they finally where able to move to Erdenet, their desired location. Shortly after arrival Brian's wife became pregnant and later in November gave birth to a healthy baby boy. On December 23 they awoke to find their son was a victim of SIDS. The family mourned and wanted to return to the United States to grieve with family. However they were prevented by circumstances (actually God) and had to stay in Mongolia.
 
What goodness came from this child's death? Hope. You see the Mongolians have never had a hope of anything after death. They had believed that once dead that was the end. To see a family grieve with hope that one day they would be reunited touched every one of them. Later Brian found out, their hope in the midst of death even touched people who had not met them.
 
Tie In With Other Posts
This book was discussed in my recent Perspectives class and ties in with my recent set of posts on what does Church mean? Why are people leaving Sunday church services? Is there a better way? Why is Western Christianity in decline?
 
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/128-why-do-people-avoid-church
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/89-to-the-core
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/85-free-from-religion
http://www.unvarnishedblog.com/component/content/article/5-christianity/63-does-size-matter
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Why do people avoid church?

by Donald E. Hester
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I have had a number of experiences lately on this topic. I figure it is time to start writing down what I am learning about. 
 
The question has come up a number of times and I have heard a number of responses. The question is, why are people avoiding church. (Little 'c' church on Sunday mornings.) In Hebrews we are reminded not to neglect or forget to gather or meet. So why are so many people put off by what we call church today?
 
My first question is, are these objections to church meetings on Sunday morning, really material to a Christian life? I have an easy answer. No. To be a Christian we don't have to attend meetings every Sunday morning, or ever on Sunday for that matter.
 
I think for many people they feel that the Christian life is simply going to church on Sunday, listen to a message, sing some songs and put some money in the offering. And if you don't do any major sins the rest of the week, you are set, smooth sailing. I think those people are mistaken.
 
My next question is whether or not it is a preference. Is it simply the mode of delivery that is the issue? Some people want to have it this way others don't. Could multiple ways of 'church' be correct?
 
These are some of the question that I start with. I plan to investigate further to see if I can make heads or tails on this issue.
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Parenting: Get ready to look at yourself.

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altParenting is such a hard job. I have to admit that being a parent sounds like a good idea until the weight of the responsibility kicks in. I was thinking the other day about how the apple does not fall far from the tree and that reminded me of far too many examples in my life. I could not help but pray that God would protect my children from my mistakes and shortcomings. I want the best for them and often feel I don't do enough. Of course, some parents do too much and that ends up bad for the children too.

I just hope that my kids can see past my mistakes and not repeat them. Don't get me wrong I love being a Dad and I love my kids dearly. It is for that reason I am concerned about doing the right thing by my kids.
 
For example my son has an issue with doing his homework. He just does not want to do it. I tried taking things away and even threatened corporal punishment. None of it worked. The funny thing is that is exactly the way I was at his age. I could not give a rip about homework and hated school when I was his age. (Of course now I like homework).    I remember my dad had done the same thing to try to get me to do mine. I then thought to myself, the apple does not fall far from the tree. What was I to do?
 
Change. I had to try to change the cycle. My solution was to give him more homework. A different kind of homework. I had my son read "The Measure of a Man" by Gene Getz. Each chapter in the book is about a value or characteristic about being a man. For example chapter 20 is about self-control, perseverance or discipline. His assignment was to define for each chapter what the characteristic means and then write 5 examples of how he could show that characteristic in his own life. After he finished the report and turned it into me we then discussed each one. Then comes the final. I asked him in his own words to tell me which one or more of the characteristics he was not following by not doing his homework. Then I asked him to tell me how he planned to correct the problem.
 
I now know he understands why it is a problem and how to correct it. See below to see what he wrote.
 
The Measure of a Man
Chapter 1
Explain what it means to be a faithful man.
·         A faithful man is not an empty talker, and he sets goals for himself.
Give five examples of how you can be a faithful man in your life.
·         Don’t empty talk.
·         Set Goals.
·         Don’t get discouraged.
·         Be honest and never lie.
·         Do what you say you will.
Chapter 2
Explain what it means to have a good reputation.
·         A man with a good reputation is a man who has both friends and enemies who respect him and talk about him positively.
Give five examples of things you can do to have a good reputation.
·         Be nicer.
·         Follow the golden rule.
·         Make other want to listen to me.
·         Try to be a man of god.
·         Listen to others.
Chapter 3
Explain what it means to have moral purity.
·         A man with moral purity is a man who doesn’t give into lust and doesn’t commit adultery.
Give five examples of moral purity.
·         Not giving into sexual cravings.
·         Meeting ones spouse’s sexual needs.
·         Be a man of one woman.
·         Think right.
·         Communicating.
Chapter 4
Explain what it means to have a balanced life.
·         In order to have a balanced life, you must be a man of faith, hope, and love.
Give five examples of having a balanced life.
·         Be a man of faith, hope, and love. 
·         Be temperate.
·         Set Biblical priorities.
·         Submit to what the Lord is trying to teach you.
·         Discern what is temporal and what is eternal.
Chapter 5
Explain what it means to demonstrate wisdom.
·         A wise man demonstrates wisdom by being prudent and having a sound judgment.
Give five examples of demonstrating wisdom.
·         A wise man is prudent.
·         A wise man is humble.
·         A wise man has a sound judgment.
·         A wise man has gratitude.
·         A wise man is prayerful.
Chapter 6
Explain what it means to be respectable.
·         A man who is respectable is a man who always does the right thing.
Give five examples of showing respect.
·         Lives like a man of God. 
·         Always does what’s right.
·         Does things that make others happy.
·         A man who is a leader.
·         A man who doesn’t say bad words.
Chapter 7
Explain what it means to be hospitable.
·         A man who is hospitable is a man who helps people.
Give five examples of hospitality.
·         If someone needs your help you help them.
·         Being generous.
·         Share with one who has needs.
·         If you don’t have much you give.
·         Being caring.
Chapter 8
Explain what it means to communicate sensitively.
·         Men who communicate sensitively don’t get mad or yell easily and listen no matter what.
Give five examples of how you can communicate sensitively.
·         Don’t get so mad.
·         Don’t yell.
·         Don’t swear.
·         Listen more.
·         Don’t call people names.
Chapter 9
Explain what it means to have moderation.
·         “To have moderation” means that if you drink, don’t drink too much.
Give five examples of how you can be moderate.
·         If/when, if I ever, don’t drink too much.
·         If/when, if ever, don’t smoke too much.
·         Not eating too much meat.
·         Don’t be addictive. 
·         Don’t partake in anything that harms the body.
Chapter 10
Explain what it means to be self-centered.
·         A man who is self-centered only cares about himself.
Give five examples of a self-centered person.
·         An over indulged person. 
·         One who doesn’t share.
·         An over restricted person.
·         A person with too much freedom.
·         One who is too bossy.
Chapter 11
Explain what it means to handling anger appropriately.
·         When someone handles anger appropriately, when they are angry, they don’t hit and yell, but handle it nicely.
Give five examples of handling anger appropriately.
·         Not Yelling.
·         Not swearing.
·         Talking it over.
·         Not hitting.
·         Being sensitive.
Chapter 12
Explain what destructive behavior is.
·         Destructive behavior is extreme anger, anger that is out of hand.
Give five examples of how you can avoid destructive behavior.
·         Do not strike out at others.
·         Isolate areas of resentment.
·         Follow a biblical approach to personal offenses.
·         Seek professional help with physical abuse.
·         Do not live in a state of denial.
Chapter 13
Explain what it means to treat others fairly.
·         One who expresses great patience and forbearance.
Give five examples of treating others fairly.
·         Someone who doesn’t abuse anyone.
·         When judging, be fair.
·         Don’t be combative, but be gentle.
·         Don’t be biased.
·         Be gentle, mild, meek, and humble.
Chapter 14
Explain what it means to be a peacemaker.
·         A person who makes peace.
Give five examples of how to be a peacemaker.
·         Don’t call names.
·         Don’t antagonize others.
·         Listen to parents.
·         Share more often.
·         Mind your own business.
·         Don’t laugh at others.
Chapter 15
Explain what it means to be generous .
·         A generous man gives to the poor and needy.
Give five examples of how to learn generosity.
·         Share.
·         Don’t be a materialist. 
·         Put more time into eternal values.
·         Give to the poor.
·         Put God on your budget.
Chapter 16
Explain what it means to father God's way.
·         To father God’s way, you must have a controlled household.
Give five examples of fathering God's way.
·         Be patient.
·         Don’t exasperate your children.
·         Don’t hit your wife.
·         Discipline your children.
·         Never provoke your children to anger.
Chapter 17
Explain what it means to love God wholeheartedly.
·         A man who loves God wholeheartedly isn’t ashamed of it.
Give five examples of loving God wholeheartedly.
·         Don’t be a lover of oneself.
·         Don’t be a lover of pleasure.
·         Don’t be a lover of money.
·         Don’t be a hater of good.
·         Be a lover of God.
Chapter 18
Explain what it means to be just and upright.
·         A man who is just isn’t prejudiced.
Give five examples of how you can be just and upright.
·         Don’t be ashamed of the gospel of Christ.
·         Always choose what’s right.
·         Live a just and righteous life.
·         Don’t be prejudiced.
·         Live by faith.
Chapter 19
Explain what it means to be devout.
·         A devout man gives his all for God.
Give five examples of how you can be devout.
·         Commit myself to God.
·         Reflect the fruit of the spirit.
·         BE A MAN OF GOD.
·         Walk by the spirit.
·         Do not practice Asceticism or Legalism.
Chapter 20
Explain what it means to be a disciplined man.
·         A disciplined man has self-control and perseverance.
Give five examples of how you can show discipline.
·         Do what I am told.
·         Go through with what I want to do.
·         Be more responsible.  
·         DO MY HOMEWORK.
·         Have more self-control.
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At Peace?

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sunflowerI was in the car driving near Washington DC when on heard a statement on the radio that got me thinking. The statement was, 'You won't be at Peace if you are in rebellion against God.' That statement is one thing but it got me thinking does it also mean that if you don't have peace you are in rebellion against God and if you have peace you are not in rebellion against God?  

The next question is what kind of peace? If I am at peace at this moment but not tomorrow and then at peace again the day after tomorrow, am I in and out of rebellion against God?
 
I think the peace he was talking about is something deeper and more permanent. I also think we have to see things in a different way in order to be at peace. Bad things happen and you can change that. Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. How you react to it depends upon you mode of thought. If you are doing what God wants you will see hardship as a bump or obstacle. You will keep your eyes on the goals God has given you. I know I am at peace when I remember what my purpose and goals are.
 
If you have goals and you are working toward them and you are not at peace, maybe you are not in God's will. Deep down you know that is not the goal you know you should have. If it was you would be a peace with it, right?
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What's so good about Good Friday?

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Cross at St. Joseph's San Pablo, CAFor those of you that are not Christian

Hey you get a day off or spring break. Maybe you have to work but little gets done. Plus, tomorrow is Saturday, so Friday is good. Or you may go out for drinks and get sloshed. However, Good Friday represents the sacrifice of love for you by the Creator of the Universe. I don't know if you noticed or have compared Christianity with any other religion. (Not that I would call Christianity a religion.) In no other religion do you have the supreme being sacrifice him or herself for you! All other religions consist of you working toward goodness, heaven, nirvana etc...

In Christianity the God of the Universe paid for everyone's wrong doings, evil deeds etc… I know what some readers are thinking, 'I am not that bad'. I call bull shit! Deep down, in paces we don't like to look, we all know we are at our core that we are sinners.    If you don't think so you are deceiving yourself.
 
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How have we squandered this day. We have neglected it and focuses more on ourselves that what He did for the whole world. It sickens me to see the cross knowing that I still cling to selfish ways. It reminds me that I am still a man in need of a Savior. 
 
If we remember what He did for use and the forgiveness we received even though we do not deserve it, I think we would not treat others so harshly. For some that call themselves Christians, bash away at people who have had a divorce, who have had an abortion and those who are homosexual. Have we forgotten our own sin? Have we forgotten to Love as commanded? Do we think He died only for us?
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What is Palm Sunday all about anyway?

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Palm Trees from Palm SpringsWhat is Palm Sunday all about anyway? Many know it is the beginning of the holy week (passion week) but not the significance of what happened on the 10th of Nisan.

 
Presentation of the Lamb
“Speak to all the congregation of Israel, saying, ‘On the tenth of this month they are each one to take a lamb for themselves, according to their fathers’ households, a lamb for each household." - NASB (Ex 12:3)
 
Israelites would take a year old unblemished lamb on the 10th of Nisan to be used as part of the Passover or Feast of Unleavened bread. This served as a reminder to Israel that God provided a way out of Egypt for them.
 
This feast was also a foreshadow of what God was going to do, through Jesus the Messiah, to save us from our bondage (slavery) to sin and death. To make sure everyone would know who the Messiah was He was presented as the Lamb of God on the 10th of Nisan, just like the Passover lamb. In the Jewish mind it might have seemed odd that John the Baptist would call Jesus the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world. In hind sight it all seems well orchestrated.
 
Presentation of the King
Not only was the lamb presented but also the King of Kings was presented.
 
“Blessed is the King who comes in the name of the Lord" - NASB (Lk 19:38 & Ps 118:26)
 
This took place to fulfill what was spoken through the prophet:  “Say to the daughter of Zion, ‘Behold your King is coming to you, Gentle, and mounted on a donkey, even on a colt, the foal of a beast of burden.’ ” - NASB (Mt 21:4-5,Is 62:11; Zech 9:9)
 
A perfect fulfillment of Zech. 9:9. To think that a King would present Himself as the sacrificial lambs is amazing. It is beyond comprehension. Just think and ponder on that for a few moments.
 
"Amazing love, How can it be, That You, my King, would die for me?" - Chris Tomlin, 'Amazing Love'
 
A Mission of Peace
When I was a kid I always wondered why a King would ride a donkey. It does not seem like a very ostentatious way to ride into town. It fact it seems very humble. Do you know why a King would ride a donkey? In that culture a King would ride a donkey when he is on a mission of peace and not war. It was a symbol to those he was approaching that he was there on a mission of peace, much like the white flag that we use.
 
Jesus Himself explains that He was on a mission of peace. His mission would create Peace between God and man. You will notice in Luke Jesus says they did not know the things to come that will make peace.
 
When He approached Jerusalem, He saw the city and wept over it, saying, “If you had known in this day, even you, the things which make for peace! But now they have been hidden from your eyes. “For the days will come upon you when your enemies will throw up a barricade against you, and surround you and hem you in on every side, and they will level you to the ground and your children within you, and they will not leave in you one stone upon another, because you did not recognize the time of your visitation.” - NASB (Lk 19:41-44)
 
You will also notice in this passage there is almost a curse for not know what that day was. It has been hidden from their eyes. I wonder if this explains why Jews don't see all the parallels of Jesus Christ in the Old Testament and in the feast they perform. I mean when read the Old Testament I see the Messiah everywhere and I wonder how anyone could miss it. Maybe this is why?
 
It also makes me aware that we need to be watching for the second coming.
 
1 Peter 2:12 uses the same term 'visitation' to talk about the second coming of the Messiah.
 
The Following Days
Now think of this:
In less than a week they will reject Him.
In less than a week they would execute Him.
It was necessary to go down this way, so that He could be our Passover lamb to take our sins away once for all.
 
Our King came to be our Passover Lamb, to bring us back to a state of peace with God. It had to bee this way because God is Just and requires payment for sins. It is God's Love that provided that payment for us.
 
The Glorious Return
The King is not finished with His work. He will return as promised.
 
Then the Lord will go forth and fight against those nations, as when He fights on a day of battle. In that day His feet will stand on the Mount of Olives, which is in front of Jerusalem on the east; and the Mount of Olives will be split in its middle from east to west by a very large valley, so that half of the mountain will move toward the north and the other half toward the south. - NASB (Zec 14:3-4)
 
When He returns He will be on a White Horse. As with the donkey the horse symbolizes He comes to wage war.
 
And I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse, and He who sat on it is called Faithful and True, and in righteousness He judges and wages war. His eyes are a flame of fire, and on His head are many diadems; and He has a name written on Him which no one knows except Himself. He is clothed with a robe dipped in blood, and His name is called The Word of God. And the armies which are in heaven, clothed in fine linen, white and clean were following Him on white horses. From His mouth comes a sharp sword, so that with it He may strike down the nations, and He will rule them with a rod of iron; and He treads the wine press of the fierce wrath of God, the Almighty. And on His robe and on His thigh He has a name written, “KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS.” - NASB (Re 19:11-16)
 
The war will end with The King of Kings establishes His kingdom over all the earth.
 
And the Lord will be king over all the earth; in that day the Lord will be the only one, and His name the only one. - NASB (Zec 14:9)
 
I think it is funny that Muslims are aware of this passage and want to make sure that no one enters the City from the Mount of Olives. They placed a cemetery there so that if Jesus returns He will not want to desecrate Himself by going through a cemetery.
 
I have a funny feeling that the day He returns for this event might be on the 10th of Nisan. Although, it might not because he will come as king and not as the Lamb. I guess we will find out.
 
Final Thoughts
 
Our Lamb
Our King
Our Peace with God
 
This is a Love that truly passes all understanding.
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It's not about you

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This statement may be a surprise for most people. Christianity is not about you. That's right Christianity is not about you. Heck it's not about me either. I am not saying that God does not love you. He does love you individually. However the bad things that happen in your life are not always about you. Our ego, the thing that is responsible for most of the sin in our lives, does not want to hear that. We selfishly assume that if something bad happens in our lives it is about us. It might be, and it might not be about you. If you think it should be about you, that is your selfishness talking. 

We invited so much anguish into our lives when we foolishly assume everything is about us. I know the meaning and purpose of my life and I now know it is not about me. I am content with that. In fact I feel a sense of duty. Not a burdensome weight. A liberation from self and ego.
 
I do not claim that I am free from ego or selfishness. I can just see the light at the end of the tunnel.
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To the Core

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Is the Christianity we have today what it was 2000 years ago? The barnacles of time have changed how we view Christianity. I have wanted to discuss this topic for some time now. I am just getting to the point where I am getting around to it.

One of the reasons people like Billy Graham so much is because the only thing he preaches is the core message of Christianity. What some call the primary issues or the essential of Christianity. Everything outside of the core is secondary, tertiary or non-essential. For me anything outside of the core is open to interpretation and the individual’s discretion.
 
"In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity.” St. Augustine
 
The core message of Christianity is basically the God of the universe, loves you and me, even though we do not deserve it, and that He provided a way for us to be reconciled to Himself. Justice and Love are God's characteristics. His justice requires payment for what we have done wrong. His love provides away for us to return to a relationship with Him. He paid for your wrongs! (Mine too) How could anyone have a problem with a God who picks up the tab?
 
Nothing in the core of Christianity is cultural. That is why it grows in very diverse cultures. However, have some people in Christianity focused more on their cultural adaptation of Christianity than the central message?
 
I think that some traditions are fine. I don't think they should become our focus. If we are focusing on them we run the risk of losing genuine Christianity. Not only that we start to fight over the non-essentials. What happens? When people think of Christians they think it is a set of rules. The rest of the world does not hear a massage of love and reconciliation.   Instead the world hears a message of hatred and division.
 
"It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery." NASB Galatians 5:1
 
I really think that God has more latitude on issues than we have. I think it is hard for people to get beyond behavior. Especially the behavior of others. I am sure Ted Haggard would like more latitude on homosexuality for his actions than he previously showed to others for their actions.
 
“For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him. There is no judgment against anyone who believes in him. But anyone who does not believe in him has already been judged for not believing in God’s one and only Son.  And the judgment is based on this fact: God’s light came into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil. All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will be exposed.  But those who do what is right come to the light so others can see that they are doing what God wants.” NLT John 3:16-21
 
People do not need to clean their lives up before they come to God. In fact, they can't. I know, I have tried. Are you tired of tiring?
 
"Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in union with the Messiah Jesus." ISV Romans 8:1
 
You will be surprised at how your desires of your past live will fade once you have been renewed. If you have been to church or attend church and still feel like you are on a treadmill of continuous works, maybe the church you attended or attend is focused more on the barnacles than the core message of Christianity.
 
Let’s get back to the basics and stop focusing on the BS. Let’s focus on what really matters.
 
[I have chosen this picture because it illustrates how barnacles of time can obscure our view of the core.]
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Free from Religion

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altI was on FaceBook the other day trying to group my friends into some type of logical order. While I trying to figure out an easy way to group them, by the way the controls in FaceBook for grouping friends needs help, I can across Dave’s profile and under religious views, he has “Jesus has set me free from religion”.

I remember how much my life was changed when I realized it was about a relationship and not a bunch of rules. It is about freedom! Freedom to sin? I guess if you really want to. Do you really want to? Maybe, just maybe consider this, freedom to love! Freedom to help others, to do what is right. Freedom to live for God, to bring him the glory. Just a thought, but maybe, you can try it.
 
Legalism is a burden that we cannot bear. When we try to we end up stumbling and look like hypocrites. Not only that, have you ever noticed that legalistic people tend to focus on all the things that others are doing wrong. Why don’t they focus on their own issues? I guarantee their issues would keep them busy for the rest of their lives.
 
We know the law was sent to condemn us not to bring us salvation. We also know that the laws bread desire for what we can’t have.   Too bad Ted Haggard did not know this. Had he walked in a relationship and not focused on what he and others could not do, he would not have ended up where he did.
 
I do feel for Ted and will pray for him. I am not praying that he be delivered from his homosexual issues. I pray that he might know how far and wide and deep is the Grace of God. That he would learn to put the law down and enter into freedom.
 
I am not preaching this as someone who has perfected this. I still struggle with legalism and will until I meet my Maker. My prayer is that I will grow in desire to know Him.
 
"Through you the blind will see
Through you the mute will sing
Through you the dead will rise
Through you all hearts will praise
Through you the darkness flees
Through you my heart screams
I am free

I am free to run
I am free to dance
I AM FREE TO LIVE FOR YOU
I AM FREE

Through you the kingdom comes
Through you the battle's won
Through you the price is paid
Through you I'm not afraid
Through you there's victory
Because of you my soul sings
I am free
 
Who the Son sets free is free indeed"
- Newsboys

 

[The Pictures is of my daughter. I was practicing taking pictures of silhouettes and this picture came out. It is one of my top views on my Flickr account.]
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Missed Opportunities

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I wonder, how many times in my life, I have missed an opportunity to do something good. I can remember times when an opportunity has presented itself and I remember rationalizing why I should not help or get involved. I think that I have become very adept at rationalizing why I should not help or get involved. I wish God would take my excuses away. I can remember at the time thinking I should have helped. Should of… I remember it happening all too often. I think I have become too comfortable with non-involvement.

Imagine a world where people decide to help instead of passing on the opportunity. Wouldn’t the world be a better place?
 
For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians 2:10 NIV
 
Now think of this. What if those opportunities where set up just for you? No one else, just you. The opportunity has been divinely appointed just for you. Do you let it pass or seize the day?
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Christian Hypocrisy

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"The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips then walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable." - DC Talk "What if I Stumble?"
 
1. Hypocrisy does not invalidate a truth claim. Atheists claim Christian hypocrisy is evidence against the existence of God. It is a fallacy to claim that a position is incorrect based upon the fact that the persons personal habits do not conform to the position. For example, if I claim that smoke is harmful for your health and I smoke you could claim that I am wrong. However, the truth of the claim that smoking is bad for your health is not predicated on adherence to the expected response.
 
Many Atheist do understand that the hypocrisy does not invalidate the truth claim. However, all the big Atheists use Christian hypocrisy parading it around in their book, articles, podcasts and blogs. It is the piñata they love to beat, and they never miss the opportunity. While I listened to debates Dan Barker, Richard Dawkins, Austin Dacey, Frank Zindler, Walter Sinnott-Armstrong, Brian Edwards, John Shook, Peter John and Sam Harris, they never failed to mention it.
 
2. Many Atheists hold humanistic position that man is generally good. (Never mind that fact they claim that all the evil in the world is evidence against God) Christian hypocrisy is evidence that people are sinners not saints. Christian hypocrisy proves people are not perfect as the Bible states. The Bible claims the opposite of the humanistic position that man is generally good. In fact, the Bible claims that man is sinful and left to himself will become more and more evil.
 
The Christian position is that once a person is saved they are not instantly perfect. There is a process of renewal, a metamorphosis, moving toward perfection. The process is called sanctification. Sanctification is the process whereby God through the Holy Spirit gently moves us in the right direction. In addition, total perfection is not obtained in this life. It is not until we die that we are glorified. Salvation, being saved, is a position not a practical experience of perfection. It naturally follows that Christians would not be perfect and given to hypocrisy.
 
Christian hypocrisy does not deny the existence of God or the truth of the Bible. It proves that I am a sinner in need of a Savior.  Christians should not condone the hypocrisy, just understand it is a part of living in a fallen (imperfect) world. 
 
"I despise my own behavior; this only serves to confirm my suspicions that I am still a man in need of a Savior." DC Talk "In The light"
 
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